It’s that time of year again,
my friends. Right about now is when so many of us have lost the resolve and
momentum to stick with a financial goal we made part of our New Year’s
resolutions.
Please hear me loud and clear:
Don’t you dare give up. You didn’t fail. Nor is the damage
permanent.
If you have stopped pursuing
one of your 2024 financial goals, or haven’t yet found the energy to get
started, you have two months of important learning to analyze.
All that has happened is that
you’ve learned what doesn’t work for you in terms of goal-setting and
goal-working. That just means you need to fine tune your approach.
Why you stopped short or didn’t
get started is highly personal. But at the same time, there are some universal
tips that may help you launch into a more sustained stretch of working on a
goal.
Get a buddy.
If you’re trying to work on
something hard all by yourself, you’ve just made it that much harder. Sharing
your goal with someone is going to help you. Even better is finding a friend,
colleague, or family member who just might want to work on the same financial
goal. Or a different financial goal. You can hold each other accountable. And
celebrate the wins together. And when one of you is losing steam, the other is
right there to cheerlead you to keep at it.
Think small.
Quite often the problem is that
we start with the best of intentions, but we set the bar too high, which causes
us to give up. Whatever your initial goal was, consider breaking it down into a
smaller bite. Maybe instead of a monthly goal, you will respond better to a
daily or weekly goal. Maybe instead of saving $50 a week, it’s $25 a week that
is sustainable.
Go against your grain.
Some interesting research a
while back found that people who tend to be very detail-oriented actually did
better when their financial goal was less detailed. And people who are more
big-picture did better if they made their financial goal very specific. It
seems when we shake things up a bit, it can help us focus and be more
persistent. For example, if you’re a detail-oriented person, you might have
told yourself: “I will save $200
every month.” If that didn’t work, try telling yourself, “I will look for ways
throughout the month to save money.” If you’re the big-picture
person who might have had some hazy-ish goal of “saving more” consider getting
specific. Ex: tell yourself you will save $200 a month (or whatever you want
your specific goal to be.)
Celebrate like crazy.
One reason I recommend creating
smaller/shorter goals is that it gives you frequent milestones that when you
reach them you can celebrate. This isn’t silly, or indulgent. It is how we
remind ourselves that we have the power to build the financial security we
crave. The only thing stopping you is hitting the reset button. What are you
waiting for?
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